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The Influence of Gaming On Society

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As I continue this series of blogs, I arrive at the topic of gaming and our children. I live in house of youth that are involved in gaming, in fact, one of my sons is an e-sports college athlete. He has been offered college scholarships to schools around the nation. I understand the gaming world well.

Video games are one of the most popular pastimes for children and teenagers in America today. While some games may offer harmless entertainment, I believe in some cases the widespread obsession with gaming has created an environment where young hearts and minds are being shaped more by screens than by Scripture. As Kingdom educators, parents, and church leaders, we must consider how gaming influences the next generation and how we can point them toward Christ instead.

Gaming by the Numbers

The statistics surrounding gaming reveal just how deeply it has captured the attention of youth:

● 85% of U.S. teens play video games, with 41% playing every day (Pew Research, 2024).

● Among teens who admit they game “too much,” 41% say it hurts their sleep and 39% say it negatively affects schoolwork.

● Even younger children are following this trend. Kids ages 8 and under average 38 minutes of gaming per day, while children ages 5–8 average 64 minutes daily.

● Teenagers and young adults (ages 15–24) spend around 58 minutes a day gaming, and children under 18 on Roblox alone average 152 minutes daily.

● A national study of children ages 6–17 found that 4+ hours of screen time per day is strongly linked to increased risks of anxiety, depression, ADHD, and conduct problems.

These numbers demonstrate that gaming is not just casual recreation, for many children, it is a powerful influence shaping their behavior, priorities, and worldview.

The Biblical Warning

Scripture warns us against allowing anything to gain mastery over our lives. Paul wrote, “All things are lawful unto me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any (1 Corinthians 6:12). When children cannot step away from the screen, gaming has moved from entertainment to enslavement.

Additionally, Romans 12:2 calls us to resist worldly patterns: “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. Yet many games promote violence, rebellion, greed, and impurity. When young minds are discipled more by these digital messages than by God’s Word, they are being conformed to the world rather than transformed by Christ.

Kingdom Education and the Call to Discipleship

Kingdom Education seeks to align all areas of life, including leisure, under the authority of Christ. It is not enough for children to receive Bible lessons in school or church while spending hours daily immersed in content that dulls their conscience and distracts their focus. Parents and teachers must work together to disciple children in the way of the Lord. Deuteronomy 6:6–7 reminds us:

“And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, andwhen thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.”

This means Christian families should intentionally set boundaries for gaming and replace excessive screen time with activities that encourage worship, learning, family conversation, and real-life service.

A Path Forward

The negative influence of gaming is undeniable; lost sleep, declining academics, damaged relationships, and spiritual distraction. Yet God has equipped His people with wisdom to guide children into freedom. By prioritizing Christ-centered discipleship over digital entertainment, families and educators can help youth grow in self-control, discipline, and joy in the Lord. The question for every parent and educator is this:

Who will disciple the next generation…the gaming industry or the Kingdom of God?

Screen Time & Dangers for Today’s Youth

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What do we all have in common?

SCREENS!

Screens are now woven into nearly every part of daily life; phones, tablets, computers, and televisions.For young people, this digital presence is not just entertainment, but often their primary environment.

The average U.S. teenager now spends 7–8 hours each day on screens outside of schoolwork. While technology can be a powerful tool, it also brings dangers that cannot be denied. We must carefully examine both the risks and the responsibility we have to guide the next generation toward truth and godliness as it relates to their usage of screens.

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The Subtle Dangers of Excessive Screen Time

1. Spiritual Drift

Screens can expose children to worldly philosophies, distorted identities, and temptations. Scripture warns us in Colossians 2:8 (KJV): “Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.”

●  Today, 48% of U.S. teens say social media has a mostly negative effect on people their age, up sharply from 32% in 2022 (Pew Research, 2024).

2. Emotional and Mental Health

Heavy use of screens are linked to anxiety, depression, and loneliness. Proverbs 29:25 reminds us, “The fear of man bringeth a snare: but whoso putteth his trust in the Lord shall be safe.”

●  A major 2025 study found that youth with 4+ hours/day of screen time were 65% more likely to experience depression and 45% more likely to experience anxiety compared  to peers with less screen time.

● Teenage girls are especially vulnerable, 25% report social media harms their mental health, compared with only 14% of boys.

3. Physical Health and Discipline

Endless scrolling weakens attention spans and erodes discipline. Ephesians 5:15-16 exhorts us: “See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.”

● Over half of U.S. teens report 4+ hours/day on screens, which strongly correlates with poor sleep, lower exercise, and increased risk of obesity (CDC, 2025).

●  Nearly 45% of teens say screens harm their sleep, and 40% say it hurts their productivity (Pew Research, 2025).

A Kingdom Education Response

Kingdom Education calls parents, teachers, and churches to work together in shaping a biblical worldview in the next generation. This means helping youth view technology through the lens of Scripture.

●  Set Boundaries: As God gave His people commandments for their good, parents must set limits on screen use. Boundaries allow space for study, relationships, service, and worship.

●  Model Stewardship: Adults must lead by example. If children see parents and leaders glued to screens, they will imitate that behavior.

●  Redirect to Purpose: Youth must learn that their worth is not in likes, followers, or trends, but in Christ. Psalm 119:9 says, “Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.”

Redeeming Technology for God’s Glory

Technology itself is not the enemy. It is a tool. Social media can spread the gospel, education can flourish online, and believers can connect across the world. But when screens replace God, distort truth, and enslave hearts, the danger is real. We should seek to redeem every area of life, including technology, for God’s glory.

Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians 10:31, “Whether therefore ye eat, or drink, or whatsoever ye do, do all to the glory of God.” This includes our digital habits.

By discipling youth to measure their choices against Scripture and use technology wisely, we equip them not just for today, but for eternity.

Social Media, Our Youth & Mental Health

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In our digital age, social media is embedded in the daily lives of young people. Apps like TikTok, YouTube, Instagram, Snapchat, and WhatsApp dominate the online spaces where teens socialize, entertain themselves, and form their identities. Frankly, I wish we could do away with social media entirely; however, it is here, and I’m afraid it’s not only here to stay but to grow.

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How Much Time Are U.S. Teens Spending on Social Media?

The numbers are sobering—and growing:

A 2023 Gallup Poll found that 51% of U.S. teens spend an average of 4.8 hours per day on social media platforms such as YouTube, TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and X.

Usage increases with age:

● 13-year-olds average 4.1 hours/day

● 17-year-olds average 5.8 hours/day

Gender differences are also significant:

● Girls average 5.3 hours/day

● Boys average 4.4 hours/day

In short: Many U.S. teens spend 5 to 6 hours daily on social media—some significantly more. That’s nearly one-third of their waking hours devoted to digital platforms.

Why It Matters: Mental Health Consequences

A JAMA Psychiatry (2019) study revealed that adolescents who spend more than 3 hours a day on social media are at a much higher risk of experiencing anxiety, depression, loneliness, and poor self-esteem. The U.S. Surgeon General’s 2023 advisory echoed these concerns, warning that excessive social media use can fuel body image struggles, disrupt sleep, and intensify feelings of isolation among teens.

Rather than providing connection, social media often amplifies comparison and self-doubt. God’s Word speaks directly against this trap:

I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. (Psalm 139:14)

Relationships in the Digital World

Although social media promises greater connection, it often leaves teens more isolated. A 2022 Pew Research Center survey showed that while teens are “constantly connected” online, many still report feeling alone or misunderstood. Scripture reminds us:

Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.  (Proverbs 27:17)

Authentic, Christ-centered relationships—grounded in accountability and love—cannot be replaced by likes or fleeting digital exchanges.

Kingdom Education: Discipleship in a Digital World

Kingdom Education provides a biblical lens to help students navigate these pressures. It is not enough to simply warn of the dangers; we must equip and disciple young people to filter all media through God’s Word.

Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind… (Romans 12:2)

Social media presses students toward conformity, but Kingdom Education calls them to be transformed by truth. Through home, church, and school working together, we can disciple youth to:

● Pursue holiness over popularity

● Choose service over self-promotion

● Build identity in Christ, not digital approval

A Call to Parents, Educators, and Church Leaders

Given how much time U.S. teens now spend online—and the clear mental health costs—we must respond intentionally:

Model wise habits – Show that digital tools are servants, not masters.

Prioritize open conversations – Encourage honest dialogue about struggles with social media.

Ground identity in Christ – Remind teens daily that their worth is not in likes but in God’s love.

Foster in-person community – Encourage friendships and discipleship that sharpen and build faith.

With U.S. teens spending nearly 5–6 hours per day on social media, the risks are real and growing. Yet through Kingdom Education, we can raise a generation anchored not in screens but in Scripture…not in fleeting trends, but in eternal truth.

It’s Not a Game Anymore

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I remember when I was a kid that little league sports teams did not play on Sunday.  They practiced an hour a week and every one cheered for their team, not against the other.  Things have changed over the years and most athletic events are no longer just an enjoyable game.  

I was reading an article the other day that said, “A successful sports program is usually the determining factor of whether a student remains or enrolled in a particular Christian School.” The interesting thing about this article is, it was written in 1981. If this statement was true back in 1981, it is definitely true in 2025. A few other profound statements from this article are:

“Sports exalt man’s strength, and ability as the essential qualities for popularity and success. Godly, spiritual values and standards are eclipsed by the glorification of man”

“Is it not strange that “Christians” who yell like crazy at ball games often sit stiff in the church pew”, I would add, if they go to church at all.

“The Holy Spirit, prayer, godliness, ministry, and making disciples for Jesus Christ have all taken a back seat to the idol god of sports that has successfully ensnared and enslaved many Christian Schools.”

I must say, I read these statements and couldn’t agree more.  If these were true 45 years ago, they are off the charts true today. As much as I love sports, I agree with Psalm 106:35, and believe we have “mingled with the nations, and learned their practices, and served their idols, which have become a snare to us.”

So what can we do to right the ship in our homes and Christian Schools? 

I believe I Thessalonians 5:21-22 gives us the three ingredients for victory when it comes to our athletic programs.

First, “examine everything carefully”. Every Christian school leader must examine the state of their athletic program.  If it has strayed off course just a hair, great attention must be given to getting it back on course.  

Second, “cling to that which is good”. Some great things can come from Christian school sports. Young people can mature in physical strength. They can learn what it means to work together as a team. They can utilize some natural ability that God has given them. Finally, they can use the popular platform of athletics to be a light in a lost world.  

Third, “abstain from every form of evil”. Schools need to trim and fix athletic programs that steal time from families, encourage the lust of the flesh and eyes, glorify man rather than God, and in the end, make an idol out of sports.  

In 1 Corinthians, Paul used athletics as an analogy for our spiritual race.  He told the church of Corinth to:

  • Run the spiritual race to win
  • Run for the eternal crown
  • Exercise self-control
  • Discipline the mind and body for Christlikeness
  • Run according to the principles laid out in Scripture

If we keep these truths in front of us, I am confident our Christian school athletes can not only compete, but win the eternal crown, along with some temporal ones as well.  

 

The Standard for Excellence

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It won’t take long for you to look at a few school websites and see phrases like these:

  • Committed to Excellence in Academics
  • Excellence in athletics
  • Striving for Excellence

We would all agree that excellence is a good thing.  My only question is, how do we know what it is? When I have asked that question in the past, I get responses like:

  • Doing your best effort
  • Superiority
  • Being better than others
  • Very good
  • Perfection

My question then is, how do we know what is best? There has to be a standard that outlines what is best and what is not, correct?  Many times, the world’s standard of excellence is based on achievement, money, power, position, possessions, strength, or victory. There is usually a spirit of comparison and competition.

In order for us in Kingdom schools to truly achieve excellence, our standard must be higher than the world’s standard. When we think of it, our standard must be “perfect as our heavenly Father is perfect.”  Our standard is Christ Himself, based on His Word, and aiming at His glory.  

I am confident that as we strive for perfection in Christ, we just might achieve excellence in other areas of our lives.  As we grow in our knowledge of God and obey His Word and live for His glory, we will then come closer to achieving excellence in our homes, churches, schools, and in every area of our lives. 

The Importance of Humility 

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Humility is one of those character qualities that the moment you think you have it you just lost it!

Over my 30 years of serving in Christian education, I must say that humility is one trait that I value the most in others and I strive to grow in myself.  Why?

First, Scripture instructs us to be humble.

  • “Clothe yourself with humility towards one anther”- 1 Peter 5:5
  • “Humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you at the proper time.”- I Peter 5:6
  • “Walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness.”- Ephesians 4:2

Second, a truly humble person will realize their shortcomings and dependence upon God.

“Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord.”- Romans 7:24-25

Third, a truly humble person will die to himself and his desires and live for the Lord.

  • “I will most gladly spend and be expended for souls.”- 2 Corinthians 12:15
  • “But I do not consider my life of any account as dear to myself, so that I may testify solemnly of the gospel of the grace of God.”

As you lead in your schools and classrooms today, I encourage you to “humble yourselves in the presence of the Lord, and he will exalt you” and use you today!- James 4:10

 

Achieving the Desired Outcome

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My mantra over the years has been, “control what you can control”.  Of course, we know that when it comes to changing the heart of every student in our school, it is outside of our control.  However, I do believe there are some things we can control that could help us see the desired outcome we want in the hearts of our students.  

In 1 Thessalonians 2:1-13, Paul models what I believe to be three things that could help capture the hearts of our students.

First, Paul demonstrated a sincere affection for the people in the church.

  • “Proved to be gentle among you”
  • “Having so fond of affection for you”
  • “Well pleased to impart to you…our own lives”

Second, Paul lived his life in a way that was consistent and Christ-like.

  • “Devoutly, uprightly, and blamelessly we behaved”
  • “Exhorting, encouraging, and imploring”
  • “Never came with flattering speech”
  • “Did not seek glory from men”

Third, Paul consistently testified to the gospel of God.

  • “Well-pleased to impart to you…the gospel of God”
  • “Proclaimed to you the gospel of God”
  • “We had boldness in God to speak the gospel”

Of course, there is no guarantee that these things will draw a young person to the saving knowledge of Christ.  However, I do believe that as our words, actions, and affections honor Christ, there is a better chance that God will use these things in the lives of our students.  We see this in how the people responded to Paul’s life:

“We constantly thank God that when you received the word of God which you heard from us, you accepted it not as the word of men, but for what it really is, the word of God, which also performs its work in you who believe.”

May God use your love, actions, and words to draw others to Christ, today! 

Discipleship in the Home

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It finally happened!  My wife and I dropped our last child off at college and now find ourselves “empty nesters”. I must admit, it is an odd feeling.  A mixture of emotions.  There is excitement in knowing your children are ready to move on but also sadness in missing those you love and knowing things will never be the same.  

At the same time, there are moments of reflection when you ponder, “did we do everything we could do to prepare them for this moment?”

Scripture is very clear on what we as parents should do:

Train up a child in the way they should go”

“Bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”

Teach your children what God has commanded us, “when you sit in the house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise up.”

That passage in Deuteronomy almost sounds too simple, but I have found in my life as a child and as a parent, it is profoundly true and practical.  Over the last 22 years, there are three simple things my wife and I tried to do in order to keep the commandments of God before our kids:

Spend Time Together

Spending time together seems rather obvious but, unfortunately, many families are so busy, distracted, and fractured that they do not spend enough time together.  How does this look?

  • Eat dinner as a family
  • Have open, honest, and fun conversations in the car, living rooms, bedrooms, vacations, and wherever you are as a family
  • Turn off the media and play games
  • Support your child’s interests and be present

Do Church Together

In our busy world, it is easy to get out of the habit of going to church.  I encourage you to be committed to your local church, be together as a family, serve together in the church, and talk together through what God is teaching you through His church.

Keep God’s Word in Front of Them

It is easy to overthink how best to teach our kids the truths of God’s word.  I admit, we have forced family devotions some over the years and been frustrated in the process.  If you have experienced something similar, don’t get frustrated.  Look for simple and intentional ways to keep God’s word in front of your kids:

  • Send them to a Christ-centered school and be engaged in what God is doing through the teacher and classroom in the life of your child.
  • Find time, either around the table or in natural conversations, to remind your family of biblical truth.
  • As your kids get older, send a daily verse through text.
  • Simply live out and speak the biblical truth that God is using to work in and through your life.

God commands us to “Go therefore into all the world, making disciples…teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.”  The beautiful thing is, we don’t have to travel far as we can be faithful to this command in our own homes. My prayer is, as we faithfully strive to make disciples, we can drop our kids off at college and know that God will finish the work that He started in the lives of our children.  

The Importance of a Biblical Worldview in Leaders

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In Christian education, leadership is not just about administration or academics—it is about creating a culture where truth is firmly anchored in God’s Word. For leaders who seek to implement Kingdom Education, a biblical worldview is not optional; it is essential.

Why a Biblical Worldview Matters

Amid cultural pressures toward relativism, Scripture provides leaders with stability and clarity.

“All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16)

When Scripture is the foundation, policies, curriculum, and practices remain aligned with God’s purposes rather than shifting cultural opinions. Institutions that drift off of a biblical worldview foundation often are those that are not grounded deeply in God’s Word, making it the living curriculum and nothing else.

Education as Discipleship

Kingdom Education is not simply about academics with a Christian perspective—it is discipleship through learning.

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.” (Proverbs 9:10)

Leaders with a biblical worldview recognize that true wisdom cannot be divorced from spiritual formation. Thus the foundation of any leader must be biblical worldview.

Modeling Integrity and Transformation

Leadership in Kingdom Education requires personal example. As Paul reminds us:

“Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)

A leader who lives out a biblical worldview demonstrates that education is not neutral—it is a tool for transformation into Christ’s image.

Barna Research: A Wake-Up Call

Barna Group’s research underscores the urgency of worldview-driven leadership:

  • Only 4% of American adults possess a biblical worldview.
  • Just 9% of born-again Christians meet this standard.
  • 92% of U.S. adults hold a syncretistic worldview, blending beliefs from secular ideologies and spirituality.
  • Even among church leaders, only 37% of pastors maintain a biblical worldview.

“Without intentional leadership rooted in a biblical worldview, Kingdom Education is vulnerable—its foundations easily supplanted by cultural narratives.”

These statistics reveal why leadership grounded in Scripture is vital. Without it, Christian education risks being shaped more by culture than by Christ.

The Leader’s Responsibility

To preserve the integrity of Kingdom Education, leaders must:

Ground every decision in Scripture – ensuring biblical authority shapes all policies and teaching (2 Tim. 3:16).
Prioritize discipleship alongside academics – recognizing education is always shaping one’s worldview (Prov. 9:10).
Model Christ-centered integrity – influencing by example (Rom. 12:2).
Equip teachers and parents – raising the standard and resisting the drift toward syncretism.

Call to Action

For Kingdom Education to flourish, leadership must be anchored in Scripture, informed by research, and lived out with integrity. A biblical worldview provides moral clarity, cultivates transformation, and equips the next generation to stand firm in faith.

Leaders, the challenge is clear:

  • Commit daily to Scripture.
  • Lead boldly with conviction.
  • Model transformation in Christ.

By doing so, you not only shape your school today—you equip future generations for life and eternity.

The legacy of Kingdom Education rests not in buildings or programs, but in leaders who live and lead through the lens of God’s Word.

The Foundation of Truth

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At the heart of Kingdom Education lies an unshakable reality: truth is not an idea, a feeling, or a cultural trend, it is a Person. Jesus declared in John 14:6, “I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” This Truth establishes Him as the cornerstone for worldview development, both in life and in eternity.

Every student is forming a worldview, by default or design. The influences of media, peers, and culture constantly whisper competing messages about identity, purpose, and truth. Without a Christ-centered anchor, those voices can lead to confusion and compromise. Kingdom Education, however, insists that the foundation of all truth is grounded in Jesus Christ. Colossians 2:3 reminds us, “In whom are hid all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge.” To teach apart from Christ is to miss the source of Truth.

Worldview development, then, is not merely about teaching Bible stories or adding prayer to the classroom. It is about shaping how students see every subject—science, history, literature, and even the arts—through the lens of God’s truth. When students recognize Jesus as Truth, they begin to discern falsehood, embrace righteousness, and live with eternal purpose.

In a world where truth is often seen as relative, Kingdom Education boldly proclaims that truth is absolute and unchanging because it is rooted in the unchanging Christ. Educators, parents, and churches must partner together to ensure that the worldview being cultivated in the next generation is not built on shifting sand, but on the solid rock of Jesus.

When Jesus is the foundation, education moves beyond academics—it becomes discipleship, shaping hearts and minds for both life and eternity.

A Prayer for the Classroom/School

Heavenly Father, today I place my classroom at Your feet. Let every word spoken, every lesson taught, and every interaction point to Jesus, who is the Truth. Guard the hearts and minds of my students from confusion, and help them see the world through Your Word. May their worldview be shaped by Christ, the solid rock, and not by the shifting sands of culture. Give me wisdom to teach with grace, courage to stand on truth, and love that reflects Your heart. In Jesus’ name, Amen.