The Key To Not Fretting

I know that the Psalmist was right when he wrote,

Do not fret because of evildoers, nor be envious of the workers of iniquity. Psalm 37:1 (NKJV)

However, I have to admit that I struggle with this at times.  And one of those times is now.  It is hard not to become frustrated when you see the evil that is taking place all around you and it seems like those committing it not only get away with it but almost flaunt it.

Some of the things that can be frustrating are:

• Being told that churches can’t meet but casinos, liquor stores and abortion clinics keep right on operating as usual.
• Seeing people physically assault others, burn down private businesses and destroy public property and no one ever seems to be held accountable.
• Seeing “famous” individuals commit crimes, be given sentences as short as 2 months and then being let out early so they don’t have to be away from home for Christmas while the ordinary person is given much longer sentences with no early release.

It can appear that when you try to live a godly life, you get attacked.  But those who don’t even attempt to hide their wrongdoing seem to get let “off the hook” without any consequences.  How can we live out Psalm 37:1 in today’s crazy world?

When trying to make sense of what is going on around me, I find it helpful to realize my feelings of frustration aren’t something that Christians are just now facing.  God’s people have had these frustrations throughout human history.  It is encouraging to read the Bible and see others struggle with the same things that I struggle with.

One of my Bible heroes is a man named Asaph.  Asaph was a Levite who headed the service of music under the reigns of David and Solomon.  He wrote several Psalms.  In one Psalm, Asaph expressed how he struggled with some of the same things that I wrestle with.

…as for me, my feet had almost stumbled; my steps had nearly slipped.  For I was envious of the boastful, when I saw the prosperity of the wicked.  Psalm 73:2-3 (NKJV)

What did Asaph mean by the “boastful” person and the “prosperity of the wicked?”  He explains exactly what he meant by these phrases when he wrote that these people were ones who,

• were strong and not in trouble like other men (vs 4-5)
• were not plagued or held accountable (vs 5)
• were proud (vs 6)
• wore violence like one would but on a garment (vs 6)
• were blessed with abundance to the point that they had more than their hearts could desire (vs 7)
• talked in boastful ways that even mocked God (vs 8,9,11)
• were always at ease and growing in material possessions (vs 12)

This is what I find myself struggling with more and more as the days wax evil.  In fact, Asaph was so discouraged that he even thought that he was wasting his time trying to live a godly life.  It seemed useless to do so.

Surely I have cleansed my heart in vain, and washed my hands in innocence.  For all day long I have been plagued, and chastened every morning.  Psalm 73:13-14 (NKJV)

Let’s be honest with each other and God.  Do you sometimes feel this way?   Is Asaph possibly speaking for you?  I am thankful that everyone wrestles with the same things that I face on a daily basis while I am living in this fallen world.

But, let’s get back to my original question.  Even though I see the prosperity of the wicked all around me and it seems like they are prospering more and more each day, how do I stop fretting about them?   It is one thing to say I am battling what Asaph did in his life.  But it is another thing to not let it overtake you with worry (fretting) and envy.

I am thankful that Asaph didn’t stop at verse 14.  Even though he was having a hard time trying to understand all of this, he knew that living a godly life was not in vain.  The key to seeing the prosperity of the wicked  but not giving up was found in Asaph’s daily habit that is explained starting in verse 16 of this Psalm.

When I thought how to understand this, it was too painful for me—until I went into the sanctuary of God; then I understood their end.  Psalm 73:16-17 (NKJV)

When Asaph spent time alone with God, he saw the big eternal picture and not just the temporal happenings that were causing him so much heartache.  It is the same thing that David understood when he wrote Psalm 37.